2021.10.20 01:45 LongQuang Crypto stencil
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2021.10.20 01:45 mftsntbb Sky Factory One - Pig Step
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2021.10.20 01:45 samjp45 What is actually considered single track??
I watch bike youtubers talk about riding on single track, and its always really loamy and flowy with maybe a few obstacles. I dont know what they are using to classify this sort of trail but in my riding circles and in much of the southeast, single track is most often the most challenging terrain, ex. moose tracks @durhamtown. I guess i am just a little disappointed looking for riding technique and finding guys calling intermediate terrain single track.
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2021.10.20 01:45 Twisted-Angel89 We are creating a toxic society.
Prefacing this with the fact that I am female and on the autism spectrum to give an idea of my perspective.
I was raised knowing that it is not everyone else's responsibility to walk on eggshells around me or read my mind. It is not any other person's responsibility to watch their words or actions to avoid triggering me, and it is my responsibility to clearly communicate my boundaries and to remove myself from situations that are overloading me. A lot of things I am seeing today are both baffling and infuriating to me. This is really a LIST of unpopular opinions, rather than one individual unpopular opinion.
A full 50% of the Me Too movement, or at least the fallout from it, is bullsh!t. Actual sexual assault is horrible to experience and the consequences from it never really go away. The panic and shame hit you again and again often out of nowhere for the rest of your life. You never really feel 100% safe again, you always have trouble sleeping, and you are plagued with nightmares about the incident forever. And there IS NO QUESTION at the time as to whether or not you are being assaulted. Unless you were intoxicated to the point of being unable to give consent, and I mean incapacitated, not I-agreed-to-this-last-night-but-think-I-should-not-have unable to give consent, you don't get to decide the next day or the next week, month, or year that after the fact you were assaulted IF you were not being physically threatened and were capable of communicating a NO and chose not to.
It is not the other person's responsibility to read your mind, under any circumstances but especially in the bedroom. It is YOUR responsibility to CLEARLY communicate your boundaries at any given moment and calling situations where people chose not to do that sexual assault is insulting and hurtful to people who HAVE been assaulted. I am not talking about people who refuse to report an actual incident of assault out of shame or fear, to be clear.
That brings me to my next point - sexual harassment is defined at my workplace as "everything that makes you uncomfortable." - If everything is sexual harassment, nothing is. That isn't acceptable. I saw a male coworker be fired after literal months of off-color banter with a female coworker - banter that SHE was actively participating in on a daily basis with no apparent issue. I don't mean tolerating, I mean making lewd jokes herself. One day his comment caught her wrong or something because she reported him to HR that day and he was immediately fired once it was confirmed that he made the comment and despite the fact that I told them when Interviewed that she had been making similar comments to him in their conversations for months. I understand that people's boundaries shift, sometimes from one day or one moment to the next. But if you don't clearly communicate that boundary shift you have no right to expect other people to know that the dynamic has changed and certainly no right to call it sexual harassment. Someone saying "nice blouse" or even making an off color joke (unless the joke specifically refers to you in any way) around you IS NOT sexual harassment UNLESS you have already told them to stop. And I don't mean uncomfortable body language or what people refer to as "hinting". It's not hard to say "Don't comment on my appearance/don't talk like that around me, it makes me uncomfortable." I have to tell people around me, basically every time I meet someone new, "Don't touch me, I don't react well to physical contact." If someone who doesn't know me hugs me before I can state my boundaries, I don't call it harassment, sexual or otherwise. I do, however, have to apologize if I don't see them coming in time to brace and prevent myself from throwing a fist or elbow or having a complete meltdown.
"Flirting" is not sexual harassment unless you've told the person to stop or to go away and they continue to bother you.
This is already too long so I will shorten my next point to "It's not anyone else's responsibility to read your mind and avoid 'triggering' you or making you uncomfortable. It's your own responsibility to control your reactions and remove yourself from the situation if you cannot. And once again, communicate your boundaries." Teaching people otherwise is turning much of my generation into a bunch of entitled self-absorbed "victims" and I hate it.
I'll stop here, since my other points should get their own posts as they don't boil down to the same things as above, which is to say:
2021.10.20 01:45 Rajajikiaayegibaraat Malaika Arora - if she's not wearing a panty then it's an easy access to her p**y
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2021.10.20 01:45 USSENTERNCC1701E Kitten is confounded by water cat.
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2021.10.20 01:45 ray_0586 [Astros] Framber Valdez will start Game 5 of the ALCS.
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2021.10.20 01:45 popcornboiii Economic Update: Signs of System Decline
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2021.10.20 01:45 trivologist Question of the day - 20-10-2021
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2021.10.20 01:45 rjborgs I need help with offline playlist sync ing. Local file on PC to iPhone.
I have tried signing in/out on both devices. I’ve clicked download on the pc playlist and on the phone but it’s not syncing. It will show the album artwork but not any songs. Any troubleshooting or possible problems.
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2021.10.20 01:45 guetzli Dan Gelbart shop tour w/ fixed audio
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2021.10.20 01:45 sage_holla Sorry Warren Towers…. (In Russia, St Petersberg there is a apartment building that houses over 18,000 people)
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2021.10.20 01:45 svanapps Huobi Trust Hong Kong Provides Safe, Secure Custody Services As Digital Asset Landscape Evolves
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2021.10.20 01:45 dunkin1980 Travis Tritt cancels shows at venues with mask, vaccine or COVID testing requirements: 'I totally disagree with any mandate'
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2021.10.20 01:45 Thedinogame_1 For real
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2021.10.20 01:45 SmokeyChoco [27/f] tired of cocomelon
If you haven’t guessed from the title, I’m the proud caretaker of a 16 month old beast. Between work, the beast and the BF I haven’t really had much time or energy to socialize. I miss bonding with someone over the new marvel movie trailer drop or discussing where the best fast food fries are from. I love my boyfriend but I can see he’s not as passionate about shows and food as I am, that’s okay I’m not into video games like he is. I want friends I can share these passions with again.
TLDR: I’m looking for people who share my enthusiasm for shows and movies and food
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2021.10.20 01:45 69urgrandma Please help urgent dog has pine cone petal in throat
Happened about 30 mins-hour ago... something like this happened last week except it was a dry piece of doggy turkey bacon that got lodged and messed her up. Last week was much worse. She was gulping and panicking bad. Now she seems fairly okay. She is stressed. But she went inside and she’s laying in her place in the kitchen. She is breathing fairly heavy but she is chilling. I’m watching her from my back porch thru the window and she does the gulp every 30 seconds or so but she’s just laying there chilling. Will she most likely be okay? Is there a deeper problem? I’m mostly concerned about if I should just watch her close or take her to vet tonight but the overnight vet are theives. If I took her and had her genuinely checked I’d probably be looking at $1000 bill... she did this same thing last week. It’s been 30-45 mins solid since I noticed she had gotten it in her throat. Please help me
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2021.10.20 01:45 SuperiorTaco1118 [H] paypal [W] events below
hey everyone! i’m looking for a couple of events as well as any random touched events that people would sell for a cheaper price. i’m looking for the following in specific
• Jade’s Infernape • 10 ANNI typhlosion > male if possible
would like to know prices before purchasing, the max i had in mind to pay would be around 30-40 dollars, if it seems like i’m lowballing please lmk below i’m not really into the whole event scene, starting to get back into it little by little. again any touched events people would wanna sell also for a cheaper price i would also appreciate!
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2021.10.20 01:45 rockamo Ruth Gordon Schnapps, California’s first female structural engineer. 1970s.
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2021.10.20 01:45 Zleamm [SG] [W] GMK Mizu/GMK Noel
2021.10.20 01:45 RobertLondon 27 M - Colombia - casual chat / friendships
2021.10.20 01:45 iamjusheretohavebeer Los taxistas de Barcelona se plantean no entrar en "puntos negros" como el Raval para evitar agresiones y robos
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